Do I really want my toddler to drink Cow’s milk?

Do I really want my toddler to drink Cow's milk?My little boy will be turning one in a few weeks time, how time flies. I recently saw the health visitor for his development check and she asked me whether I would be starting him on cow’s milk after he turns one. Without really thinking about it I said yes as this is what I did with his sister. When Mélie turned one she wasn’t really interested in breastfeeding anymore either, so following main stream advice I just gave her cows milk. Isn’t that what everybody does?

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We are told kids need cows milk, after all they give it to them at school. It’s full of calcium and it gives them strong bones, right? But in the last few weeks, I have been reading more and more about why this might not be true.

I recently red Nutritional Therapist Amelia Freer book ‘ Eat, Nourish, Glow’ (which I can only recommend) and as a result I have decided to make a few minor changes to my diet.  I am not going fully dairy free but I am cutting out sugar and reducing my cow’s milk intake. I have started making my morning porridge with almond milk and water, I am eating goats and ewes cheese instead of ones made from cows milk and I have reduced the amount of yoghurt I eat. The reason is that Amelia’s Freer’s book is very convincing as to why you might want to cut dairy from your diet. So, I’m trying it out to see if I feel healthier. I haven’t cut it from the kids diet yet but if it’s not good for me surely it’s not good for them either?

Here are a few things I have read about cow’s milk that I find alarming should they be true:

  • Dairy is not required for bone health (Nuts, seeds and greens provide better, more absorbable sources of calcium)
  • Scientific studies show that milk increases fracture risk and osteoporosis (articles here)
  • Most dairy contains a growth hormone ( IGF-1) which is linked to an increase in hormone related cancers
  • Cow’s milk causes intestinal bleeding in 40 percent of infants (under 1’s) leading to iron deficiency
  • Some studies suggest that children who drink cow’s milk have been found more likely to develop Type 1 Diabetes later on ( articles here and here)

When you start looking into it there’s actually a lot on the internet about why cow’s milk could be dangerous for us.

Cow’s milk is a known as one of the most allergenic foods, it is not something that our body can digest well. If we think about it, we are drinking milk which is designed for calves, not for human consumption. On top of that, we are not really designed to consume any type of milk into adulthood.

Research suggest that children start producing less lactase (the enzyme needed to deal with lactose, the sugar in milk) when they’re as young as two years old. That is why some people become lactose intolerant later in life.

This interesting article explains that ‘Most people who retain the ability to digest milk can trace their ancestry to Europe’ because of a genetic mutation that spread through Europe. Young children almost universally produce lactase and can digest the lactose in their mother’s milk. But as they mature, most switch off the lactase gene. Only 35% of the human population can digest lactose beyond the age of about seven or eight.’ (Andrew Curry).

So with my little boy loosing interest in breastfeeding, do I really want to start him on cow’s milk?

And what about infant and toddlers formulas (derived from cow’s milk) and bi products of cows milk such as yogurt and cheese.

This article explains that ‘Yogurt in particular is chock-full of beneficial qualities. As is the case with milk, organic yogurt does not have rBGH, but even several of the most well-known yogurt brands have stopped using the bovine growth hormone (rBGH).’

Dr Mark Hyman, a practicing physician who has written articles on why milk is dangerous for our health mentions formula ‘  If you have to feed your child formula from milk, don’t worry. The milk in infant formula is hydrolyzed or broken down and easier to digest (although it can still cause allergies). Once your child is a year old, switch him or her to real food and almond milk.’

So if cow’s milk is not great for our kids, what are the alternatives?

  • Breastmilk; Obviously breastmilk is what our children are designed to drink. Many mothers will choose to continue past the age of one although for others it may not be what they want or can do.
  • Formula; There are many formulas designed for toddlers to drink, many of them derived from cows milk. They contain extra vitamins, minerals, and nutrients but it has been suggested some brands have more sugar and less calcium than cows milk, are they just a waste of money?
  • Almond milk; Of all the nut milks it’s probably one of the most nutritious but it does contain a lot less protein than cows milk. I really like the taste of it though!
  • Goats milk; It is very similar to Cow’s milk but is more digestible and it contains less lactose. Some claim that goats milk is more similar to human milk in composition.
  • Coconut milk; It has less protein than cows milk and very little calcium but is high in calories. Probably best used as an occasional drink rather than an alternative.
  • Oat milk; It is high in fibre but contains no fat or calcium although it is usually fortified.
  • Hemp milk; High in Omega 3 and 6 essential fatty acids but usually fortified as it doesn’t naturally contain calcium.

Alternatives that are not recommended:

  • Rice milk; Lacks some really important nutrients and not advised before the age of 4 1/2 as recommended by the food Standards Energy due to high levels of arsenic
  • Soya milk; it about the same amount of protein as cow’s milk and some iron, but little calcium unless fortified but is high amounts of isoflavones (plant estrogens) and disrupt the hormonal development of young children.

What are your thoughts? Which milk will your toddler be drinking?

I haven’t yet decided and in the meantime I continue to do a combination of breastfeeding and formula.  I have started to include almond milk and goats milk in my little boy’s diet to add to some variety to his nutritional needs.

Please note:

These findings are a result of some of my research but they remain a series of questions. Please do not change your child’s diet without advice from a trained dietician or nutritionist.

There are two sides to the cows milk debate and many still believe cows milk to be beneficial to children’s development.


LINKS – Further reading’s-milk-alternatives-for-toddlers.html

4 Comments Add yours

  1. Addie says:

    Hi there,

    I was just having this exact conversation with my husband as our first child will be one next month! I’m considering just making sure she eats a nutrient dense diet, which will include some dairy but I just don’t know how I feel about several bottles of cows milk a day? Glad to read someone else is questioning this. XO-Addie Ladner

    1. Hi Addie, it’s nice to hear other people are thinking the same. I like your blog too, lovely photos!

  2. Crystal says:

    Just came across this article. My son turned 1 year at the beginning of March. I am breastfeeding and supplementing with formula. We switched his formula very early on due to digestion problem with the cow’s milk in his formula (both Dad and I do not tolerate diary very well). So, coming up to his one year, I started some research myself and found the same findings about traditional cow’s milk at 1 year. I opted to transition him to Hemp milk. So far no issues other than he rather have it warm than straight from the fridge! It’s refreshing to read/see other reviews and thoughts about cow’s milk alternatives. Thank you

    1. Thanks for your comments Crystal…Great to read different stories and experiences with milk. Good luck with it all x

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